People in My Life

People come into my life for a REASON, a SEASON, or a LIFETIME. When I figure out which it is, I know exactly what to do.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.

They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring this relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die.

Sometimes they walk away.

Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done, and it is now time to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.

They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.

They may teach you something you have never done.

They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.

Believe it! It is real! But, only for a SEASON.

LIFETIME relationships teach me lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. My job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what I have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of my life.

To those who have breaks my heart or hurt me in any way, from the bottom of my heart I forgive you, sincerely…

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.


  1. Sileast20

    26 December, 2007 at 12:56 pm

    *Pondering without Uttering a word*

  2. Nightwing

    27 December, 2007 at 12:49 am

    Good on you…I know it must be tough..but u r a better person because of it.

    Cheers and take care now…:)

  3. Hor ny Ang Moh

    27 December, 2007 at 12:52 pm

    Well! I wish u happy new year!

  4. Mystery LadyBird

    28 December, 2007 at 3:06 am

    Sileast – u r owest like tat, like 2keep thgs 2 yrself 😉

    NightWing – hell yeah it is, better person o nt tat i leave 2 time 2 tell… 🙂

    HornyAngMoh – Happy New Year 2 u 2 🙂

  5. WoMbOk™?

    28 December, 2007 at 3:56 am

    Happy new year Ladybird 🙂

    Very insightful post.

  6. Mystery LadyBird

    28 December, 2007 at 4:03 am

    Wombok – take it as wat it is.. Happy New Year 2 u 2.. 🙂

  7. U.Lee

    28 December, 2007 at 4:59 am

    Hi Ladybird,
    Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart. Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens.
    If you were a tear in my eye, I would not cry for fear of losing you.
    My very best regards to you, Lee.

  8. Mystery LadyBird

    28 December, 2007 at 5:58 am

    Oh my…yr words carries lots of weight Lee n im so grateful 2hv u in my life. 🙂

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