Perceptions on Different Race Relationship

Malaysia are well known of its multi-racial and cultures and has amazed the world how these races can live peacefully and harmoniously. So, it wouldn’t be surprise if there are some Malaysians comes from mixed parentage which include myself. ;p

*wink wink*

Due to this, I’ve heard statements made by Malaysians or even foreigners claimed those who comes from mixed parentage are usually good looking and smart. But on the contrary, I’ve also heard some negative remarks on this such as some races dates other races (instead of dating their own race) just for the sake of ‘recognition’.

Example A: Remarks by my West Malaysian friends
In West Malaysia, to see an Indian guy dates a Chinese gal, it’s something to be proud of as it’s common to see Malay guys dates Chinese gals. But it’s common to see a Malay guy dates a Chinese gals.

Example B: Remarks by my Sarawakian and Sabahan friends
In East Malaysia, to see other races dates other races is something unique and nothing un-usuall about it.

For me, regardless what race my dating partner is, what matter the most in a relationship is sincerity and trust. And if the relationship work out well along the way (which end up with a marriage) then this is something to be proud of. 😉

What say you on this??

To my blog readers out there regardless you are a Malaysian (West Malaysian, Sarawakian or Sabahan) or to my International blog readers, I’m waiting anxiously for your comments on this.

5 Comments

  1. SIleast20

    28 March, 2007 at 1:51 pm

    I am chinese, Kelabit, east malaysian and residing in west malaysia so now a west malaysian…so now….I am a confused person…..

  2. SIleast20

    28 March, 2007 at 1:51 pm

    I am chinese, Kelabit, east malaysian and residing in west malaysia so now a west malaysian…so now….I am a confused person…..

  3. Chee Kui

    28 March, 2007 at 4:00 pm

    For me, personally, I think inter-racial relationship is not a problem. Because I am in one too.
    Hmm. Sometime it’s nerve wrecking la. Pening a li’l bit becos of different culture and lifestyle.

  4. Chee Kui

    28 March, 2007 at 4:00 pm

    For me, personally, I think inter-racial relationship is not a problem. Because I am in one too.
    Hmm. Sometime it’s nerve wrecking la. Pening a li’l bit becos of different culture and lifestyle.

  5. Nightwing

    2 April, 2007 at 8:32 am

    I have not experience it b4, so can;t comment much abt it. But like u say, as long as it is sincere and the trust is there…go for it.

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