Sapa U Nak Kutuk Bangsa I?!!

Honestly, I’ve not really got over my bad day incident yesterday and today incident has made my day. I am smiling now as I felt on whatever happened earlier in the morning was quite ‘hilarious’ in a way and ‘shocked’ at the same time.

Why? Let me share it with you.

May I remind my gentle readers that whatever been delivered today in this post is purely based on my point of view which started in a jokingly manner which turns bad (rasa rasa sweet and sour pork jak rasa nya) and had no what-so-ever external influence forces that encourage me to jott this moment of my experience in this humble blog of mine.

And also do be reminded too that this post of mine may or might spark any form of sensitivity issue that may or might lead to further speculations based on the reader understanding or on how they take it.

Therefore, viewer and depth understanding discretion is advised and required in this matter.

If with these few paragraphs had triggered your mind of curiosity then by all mean, do read thoroughly the post and if with these few paragraphs had turn you off by all mean, stop reading this post, close the active blog window as there’s no point to read it further.

Don’t waste your precious time reading on my post.

For a clearer picture, it would be fair (that’s what I think) to briefly introduce the person that I had a ‘drama’ with. I’m not going to disclose his real name (being considerate as I’m a harmless person) here and I’ve known him for more than 2 years now. He’s an academician (aka lecturer lah) in one of a respectable IPTA based in KL, a political science graduates, working on his PhD thesis and also a part time tutor for OUM. In the recent parliamentary election (if I’m not mistaken, it was the last year election), he’s one of the 5 invited commentators on the election results shown on air live at TV9. He’s half Malay and half Indonesian (his mom is an Indonesian) by race and whenever he had the time for family quality time, he would joined the family at JB.

Both of us get to know each other via Friendster and the friendship starts from there. We have been exchanging emails, phone calls and text messages. He’s friendly, sociable, bubbly and likes to joke.

This morning, he buzzed me via text messages on the recent Batang Ai election results and asked me whether I’m happy with BN’s victory at Batang Ai. Being a neutral individual person in political issue, I told him it doesn’t matter who won the seat as the current political issue already sucks big time. If fail to win my heart to be devoted.

So, he replied me…


I was smiling to myself when I read the message so I replied him…
“kalau camtu, pergi mampuih la ketuanan melayu lol…”

 And he replied…


I was shocked upon reading his reply and wondering whether he is taking it seriously so I replied him…
“lol…tsinggung trus la tu”

And he replied…


At this moment, I am stunned. Back in my head, hellloooooooo who started it first? So, I decided not to reply him anymore as it will only worsen the situation.  

But little do I know, he can’t get over it and started to sent more ‘piss off’ text messages to me (dah geram tahap space cop gaban la ni).



So I apologized for the second time, re-forward the earlier text message where he himself critizing his own race (refer to the first photo), told him that I would further elaborate my view on the issue only when he is in his calm mode. And he said…


At this point, I find it’s pointless to further argue with him so I release a mild version of my view…
“honestly even the malay society in Sarawak also dislike the ktuanan mttr and we here see it as d w.msian propaganda to gain politic and moral support frm d rakyat”
And ‘crash boom bang’, he sent me continuous text messages…




The ending, I don’t bother to reply him anymore as it leads to ‘la-la land of no return’.

Today, I learnt something that I learnt yesterday (oh boy we do learn something new everyday don’t we?). Never argue with an idiot (now the idiot apply to lecturer-a specific lecturer in this case).

It makes me to ponder…
When the article 153 was quoted, I am just wondering whether he did read about the 18 points agreement too?

If it was because of the ‘ketuanan melayu’ issue, what sort of speciality does those mentioned ethnic races gained and benefited from the article 153?

If the ‘bangsa melayu’ is a big ‘matter’ here, I am just wondering why most of the malay ministers sent their children studied overseas (some even worked there) and not sending their children studying in local educational organization in support of bahasa melayu?

Why introduce English in Science and Mathematics subjects at school? Why not the bahasa kebangsaan instead?

The list goes on…but that’s gonna cause my freedom of speech.

So, gentle readers do share with me on your view over this matter as I would love to hear it from you. Do show me how to respect other races too should I am being the rude person here. Do guide me too as I’m not perfect person in many ways. Do feed me too with knowledge on the country system.

Lastly, sapa u nak kutuk i? Bagi la input yang membina. 🙂


  1. cyril dason

    9 April, 2009 at 8:24 am

    I agree so much on this point “honestly even the malay society in Sarawak also dislike the ktuanan mttr and we here see it as d w.msian propaganda to gain politic and moral support frm d rakyat”

    Things I hate listening to in the news are … ketuanan melayu, hak melayu, bla bla melayu…

    I just came back from BTN, and you know what they said? They said “When we mention Melayu, it refers to all bumiputera, including those from Bumiputera from Sabah and Sarawak”, but I do find it funny how they would include those from Sabah and Sarawak when it comes to issues which makes them gain, but refer us as ‘somebody different’ when we we meet them socially.

    If you don’t get what I mean, nevermind 😀

    1. ladybirdmollyz

      9 April, 2009 at 8:40 am

      i get what you mean and its loud and clear bro.

      it also shows to me that they (malay) can ‘kutuk’ themselves upside down but will go berserk (inciden drama angkat keris masih segar di ingatan) when other races ‘kutuk’ their race.

      that makes me wonder on how other countries see or perhaps even study our country system works and they end up ‘angkat taji manok’ in the air each time anything ‘ridiculously’ happen in the political matters.

  2. Gallivanter

    9 April, 2009 at 9:02 am

    What a lame dude, but yeah, never argue with an idiot. 🙂

    1. ladybirdmollyz

      9 April, 2009 at 10:15 am

      yup..i never see him as an academician anymore. sad to see such ‘rotten apple’ among the academician society. patriotism my foot lah!!

  3. Cuteperidot

    9 April, 2009 at 10:52 am

    Hahahaha.. I was trying so hard not to laugh out loud.. But darlin.. nang bodo la tat guy.. no wonder uni student skrg sik ada quality. if u ahve a lecturer wt such narrow minded buduhness u’ll end up wt ppl of same quality. they actually make themselves ‘buyai’ beyond words of discription. hahahaha.. wht a good laugh

    1. ladybirdmollyz

      9 April, 2009 at 11:04 am

      memang pun nya bloody ‘buyai’, anadak tih anak adik suk belajar nge’ uni sineh bah. keneh’ ngabei tih lemulun lun sineh terun keh’. wonder who’s the one that is ‘cetek’ at the 1st place?

      anyway, i had a good laugh too. 🙂

      ps-sapa u nak kata i ‘buyai’? lol..

  4. pilgrimsmaster

    10 April, 2009 at 12:12 am

    besalah, budak kampung dapat Phd beli.

  5. K7

    12 April, 2009 at 11:23 pm

    sapa u nak kutuk bangsa i? hahahahaha LB, u been trapped by this guy, mcm sengaja mok carik gaduh jak.. period kali hihi.. is he really a master degree holder? why talk such unprofessional way? bagi malu jak

    1. ladybirdmollyz

      13 April, 2009 at 8:34 am

      me trap by him? it’s him actually who trapped in his own world. kesian nya bah.

      master degree holder or professional or not that just show when you cant control your EQ. and when you are not in control, your weakness (in this matter, its his stupidity) will be reveal in-directly regardless how high or what status you are in the society.

  6. Digitalfly

    13 April, 2009 at 4:01 pm

    I rase die kurang kasih sayang. Live in the same country but yet still doesn’t know who is who. Emo yang tak tentu pasal. Get a livelarrr!!!

    1. ladybirdmollyz

      13 April, 2009 at 4:34 pm

      sigik bro, adalah bangsa kadazan kat sarawak bro? perasan sik nya listed all of the races in sarawak in one of his text message? that’s the thing here, most of the west msian thinks kadazan is one of the race from sarawak where in actual fact its wrong!

      patriot apa benda mun camya?

  7. bongkersz

    13 April, 2009 at 4:59 pm

    At first, it seems like it’s a case of understanding, but then it generated into some rubbish talks by the ‘patriot’.

    As a man, he should have accepted your apology the second time you asked for it, to clear the misunderstanding, but he didn’t.

    What friend? As a friend, he should know.. you gave your comment, from a friend to another friend, without referring to him specifically. And, as a friend, he should know you sure have no hard feeling and give you the benefit of doubt when you explained your case.

    And, KETUANAN is SOOOOOOOO different from special rights and privileges accorded to Malays and Sarawak & Sabah natives. KETUANAN is something created by Umno to whip these idiots into submission, to give them a false sense of being ‘TUAN’. And, exactly how you experienced yourself how a ‘TUAN’ behaved.

    What a stupid lecturer…

    One thing to note, from my own experience. In Malaysia, it’s okay for Muslim to dish its own religion, Malay to dish its own race, Chinese to make fun of Chinese, Dayak make stupid jokes about Dayak.. but not about the people outside your own ‘circle’. It’s hard to be tacky in this aspects, words often get misunderstood.

    It’s okay Ladybird, a friend like this you don’t need to keep 🙂

    1. ladybirdmollyz

      13 April, 2009 at 5:10 pm

      for the record, he’s out of the friend list the day he labelled me as ‘perempuan tak bermaruah’. may he be the one and only ‘patriot yang bermaruah’ in malaysia.

      and you know what, he still have the guts to buzz me again by wishing me ‘happy good friday’.

  8. Wiremonkey

    28 August, 2009 at 12:00 pm

    Sorry for being very “late” in butting in. Hmmm, makes me wonder where this “academician” got his Masters. Ngeja hypocrite pun salah.

    1. ladybirdmollyz

      28 August, 2009 at 12:14 pm

      i have no idea…lantak nya lah sia asal nya bahagia dalam dunia nya dirik mpun.

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